We are all sexual beings with sexual needs and desires and its important that we do not ignore these needs and of utmost importance that we don't judge others with regards to their sexual needs even if we ourselves do not understand why others have things that turn them on that seem odd to us because we don't understand. Those who do feel the need to judge or shame others feel this way because they are uncomfortable with their own sexuality and would be much better served by addressing those discomforts rather than putting others down.
There are a lot of lonely people out there whose sexual needs and urges are not met or fulfilled by anyone in their day to day lives. That can be for a variety of reasons . Some people feel that they are not good-looking enough, some men worry about having a penis that is too small or that they are too fat or too old. Some people have had traumatic experiences or have been made to feel ashamed. I have genuine empathy for such men (or women) but men in particular. Woman can easily augment their breast surgically but it is very hard for a man to change the size of his penis and I do really understand how distressing this could be to be born with what one perceives to be inadequate especially given society's unhealthy obsession with how big a man's dick is.
The simple fact is that every human is beautiful in their own way and my job is to make you feel special for the time that we are together so that you may forget about these insecurities and just feel fucking sexy. Because you are human and your sexual needs and desires are very important to who you are- you are just as important as the next guy who you may think is more sexy that you hence more deserving of having his erotic needs met.
So I view my job as a sex worker as one of great importance- I am blessed with the ability to be able to fulfil your sexual needs and desires that society has told you you should not have. Its all about you, not me. No matter who you, so long as you are respectful, I can help, and I will help without judgement. Maybe none of this applies to you and you just want to get your rocks of and have fun- thats fine as well.
So you see I want to help I want to make you feel special, and I m pretty proud to be in a position to do this. Its just sex right, its silly society places all this taboo around what is one of the most enjoyable things in life.
I want to make you feel special, and I m pretty proud to be in a position to do this. Its just sex right, its silly society places all this taboo around what is one of the most enjoyable things in life.
During our time together as a professional it is my job to make you feel special. Because of the intimate nature of this interaction some men can become confused and start to believe that perhaps the attention I have paid them means I want to be their real life girlfriend. I can not state it clearer than this- this is simply never going to be the case. I have a long term boyfriend who is wonderful and we are very happy- he is the man I have chosen to spend the rest of my life with.
That does not mean our interaction was without any sort of a connection in terms of my experience of things. Far from it, I do enjoy the connections that develop in my interactions with all you men. And I really really do care about your emotional welfare also. But I am a paid profession whom you have hired and we must not forget this. I am a master at compartmentalisation this allows me to help you out at such a level of intimacy but still maintain a healthy long term relationship with a wonderful man whom I have chosen to spend my life with.
Because over time and especially if my client is a repeat customer a rapport is built which means something to me. Its always really awkward and terrible for me if such a client then starts to feel strong emotions and hence feels entitled to accessing free services from me. It feels to me like a betrayal of the relationship, if you will. I m certain it's never intentional, but it usually starts with an innocent request for naked photos or a video chat. You have to understand that this is my work and any type of media be it photos or video chat takes creativity, time and energy. I'm sure you would tell you boss where to go if he asked you to go to work for free for a day. When you make requests for unpaid interactions and content this is what you are doing to me. It's not fair, it's always very disappointing when this happens so please have the respect, style and grace to refrain from this. And likewise if I don't set these boundaries now then thats also not fair to you either.
More explicitly please only contact me to book a time or date for our date or to discuss specifics about that. Do not contact me for any other purpose please. please do not request the following
- unpaid skype or video chat
- for me to text you pictures- you can access these on all of my websites
- for any general chit chat ie to ask what I am doing, to ask how I am- I know that seems unkind but I am a paid profession and not your girlfriend
My goal is to help you- its all about you and not about me. These are confusing and complex concepts to consider and I understand this.
Now we have that topic all set out and we have discussed the serious stuff- lets just get sexy and have some fun!